What should we do when we are confronted with other cultures?
Culture is a very sensitive topic. There are over a million people groups in this world we live in and each has distinctly different traditions, values, and priorities. A meeting of two different cultures need an extent of weariness but at the same time may result in an array of different colors existing in unison.
Throughout my life, I have come across a variety of cultures as I came into contact with different countries and people groups. There are a list of facts in each culture that I can come up with in my head in a single moment but I feel that these facts do not describe each to the fullest but rather, is like bits and pieces of fabric sewn into a misshapen quilt.
Experiencing Korean, American, Uzbek, Russian, Iranian, Afghan, Thai, Spanish, and British culture first-hand, I consider myself to having a rather good amount of insight in world cultures. What all these cultures have in common may be described in the simplest form: moral conduct. Although this may be expressed in different ways at different times, it still is the basic foundation to each culture. Thus, when confronting a totally different culture, it is best to follow the basics: distinguish your actions to the simple rights and wrongs. Greeting one another, respecting others' property, listen when you are spoken to - everything else just stems from there.
It is meaningless wishing that you would not offend anyone in a new culture. It is a fact that offending someone in a different culture is inevitable. How can two totally different people of different race, values, and upbringings find each other's actions familiar and understandable? The wisest thing in the meeting of two cultures is to carry out actions with good meaning. Although your actions may offend individuals of another culture either religiously or traditionally, if your actions were done in good will, it becomes easier for both cultures to come to an understanding of where each stands in order to reconcile. And the simplest thing to begin with is to do as is said, "When in Rome, do what the Romans do." Presenting yourself in the way the people of a different culture do around you is the vital guidebook to understanding new cultures.
4 comments:
November 25, 2008 at 6:10 PM
Hyejin,
I really agree with your ideas...culture is indeed a very sensitive topic. And I also agree that "In Rome, you do what the Romans do." It's interesting to see another person having the same ideas as I did! :) I really like your blog.
-Christy
November 25, 2008 at 6:32 PM
Hyejinaaa~~
Nice post! As a person daily confronting many other different cultures also, I agree that the simplest way is to go with the flow, carrying out positive behaviors. I really like what you said about the different cultural groups not necessarily representing their cultural values. Because many people are in a situation like us, I think we all have confusions about our cultural values, in some ways. Gooood job:)
-ShinAe-
November 26, 2008 at 4:38 AM
"In rome do as the romans do, unless of course they are cannibal headhunters!!!!" Mr. Rader
Just a little quote I thought of right now. I like the part in your blog where you discuss good will and intentions. I think in many cases we can forgive people who are ignorant of our culture as long as we feel they have good intentions or they are sincere in their mistakes. I think that is why people from other cultures have such a hard time with Americans. In general Americans are a bit, well very, my way or the highway, and unapologetic for our offenses. We could take a lesson in etiquette that is for sure!
November 26, 2008 at 5:18 AM
HYEJIN~~~!
Hey babe!! I think your really lucky to have experienced all those different cultures, ah~ so jealous. I totally agree that every culture, no matter how different, has its rules and etiquettes that we'll have to learn to follow and it's always best to show respect. But then it's really hard to always do everything right and follow through with a culture's various rules, especially when we have a hard enough time trying to belong to our own culture...bummer i guess. Anyways I love your post and reading about your ideas.
See ya tommorow!
Love,
Jin
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